6 hours agoMember-onlyWhy Should Jews be Nice to Susan Sarandon (and other antisemites)?Since Hamas’ terror attack on Israel, we’ve seen plenty of progressive “allies” unable or unwilling to address their own antisemitism. But one of the weirdest forms of latent antisemitism I’ve seen is this idea that Jews — uniquely — have to keep doing business with people who say racist stuff…Israel6 min readIsrael6 min read
Nov 22Breaking Bread, Not Bonds: Dealing with Differences and Fostering Friendships this Crazy Holiday SeasonWhat does it say about our culture that every holiday, two kinds of essays dominate the media: how to nail the holiday meal or its aftermath and how to talk about (insert touchy political subject here) at the dinner table with people who disagree? In the main, perhaps we’re overworked…Communication6 min readCommunication6 min read
Nov 17Member-onlyProgressives are Extremists. True Liberals Need to Stop Them.This is a message to true liberals (Democrats, Republicans and Independents alike). The failure of the progressive movement after the Hamas terror attacks of October 7th now renders the entire enterprise moot. If the idea was to advocate for progress, justice and equality, but to exclude Jews from this calculus…Israel5 min readIsrael5 min read
Nov 16Member-onlyThe Danger in Arguing about Israel and HamasOne thing that I notice a lot in the “discourse” (and if you could see my fat fingers air-quoting you’d love it) around the Israel-Hamas war is how much people seem to want to convince each other. They seem to believe that they can make a post — however poignant…Israel5 min readIsrael5 min read
Nov 13Member-onlySelf-Loathing and the Israel-Hamas WarIt seems everyone hates themselves these days. After decades of Oprah, Gwyneth and Lizzo (pre cancellation), it turns out that we hate ourselves more than we even knew. And it took the Israel-Hamas conflict to bring this into sharp relief. Here’s my pitch, TV executives: it’s a version of America’s…Israel8 min readIsrael8 min read
Nov 8Can Work Friends Talk About Israel-Hamas?With tensions high around rising antisemitism and conflict in the middle east, friends of all kinds can find themselves in the most awkward situations for discussion. But friendships that are rooted in the workplace can have extra complexity. This is because most adults live in political and religious bubbles based…Workplace5 min readWorkplace5 min read
Nov 6Member-only(Immigrant) Parents, It’s Time to Talk to Your Kids about Israel and HamasImmigrants to the US and Canada don’t have a ton in common beyond a desire for a better life away from their home countries. Sometimes we move just for economic opportunity, other times it’s for environmental, social, political or justice reasons. Regardless, we have had one mostly ironclad agreement —…Israel6 min readIsrael6 min read
Nov 2How Companies Should Respond To the Israel-Gaza ConflictCompanies are being pressured to take stands on all kinds of hot button issues, including the latest war between Israel and the terror organization, Hamas. Most of this pressure is internal. In the 2010s, corporate activism shifted from being led by consumer action to being led by employee demands. Increasingly…Work5 min readWork5 min read
Oct 25Member-onlyI’m Done Asking for Sympathy, Lefty FriendsI’m done trying to get your sympathy, thanks very much. Like many liberal Jews, I’ve been concerned with the increasing antisemitism in progressive circles over the last 20 years. Of course liberals like me made common cause with progressives for two core reasons: We thought we had a shared belief…Israel5 min readIsrael5 min read
Oct 12Member-onlyHamas Killed the Progressive Movement TooHamas’ unprecedented and disgusting attack on Israeli civilians is a catastrophe. The loss of life is still being understood, but it’s clear that innocent humans were tortured, raped, maimed, murdered and made to suffer in fear and anxiety for bloodlust and hatred. As someone who lived through 9/11 and its…Politics6 min readPolitics6 min read