Oh sorry if I was unclear.

1. Bringing it up here is a very effective way of pre-selling it to potential mates. Thousands of people will see this post, so job well done. :)

2. Using "privilege" as a frame for thinking about how power is distributed in society began in communist circles in the 1960s. Since then, privilege and intersectionality have been both opposed and embraced by classic and Neo Marxists. If they have opposition, it's that privilege theory doesn't sufficiently explain the systemic roots of economic oppression. But at its core, privilege theory aligns perfectly with the Neo Marxist thinking about economy, class and the struggle for freedom.

The outlet below is a bit of a rightwing hackity-hack, but they do an excellent job on the basic history of "White Privilege," the SDS, Ted Allen and WEB DuBois:

https://americanmind.org/features/the-racial-marxism-of-blm/the-communist-roots-of-white-privilege/

If you want to read a more detailed analysis by a marxist, this is a pretty good primer:

https://cominsitu.wordpress.com/2017/04/15/privilege-theorys-critique-of-marxism/

Marx would have loved using these theories to explain your class/power and d*ck size TBH, I hear he was pretty funny. :)